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	<title>Comments on: 10 Counterintuitive Ways to Improve Your Life</title>
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	<description>Live on Your Own Terms</description>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-15560</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 20:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I especially agreee with #10, as I know many people who are always doing something to improve their life. While this may be a good thing, it&#039;s also harming them because half the time they&#039;re trying too hard to change themselves, which makes them no fun, and the other half of the time they&#039;re finding something in themselves to change! 
Balance is key, I believe.
And I&#039;ll definitely be recommending this to a bunch of my friends.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I especially agreee with #10, as I know many people who are always doing something to improve their life. While this may be a good thing, it&#8217;s also harming them because half the time they&#8217;re trying too hard to change themselves, which makes them no fun, and the other half of the time they&#8217;re finding something in themselves to change!<br />
Balance is key, I believe.<br />
And I&#8217;ll definitely be recommending this to a bunch of my friends.</p>
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		<title>By: Dream and Grow Rich &#124; Inner Noodle</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-5543</link>
		<dc:creator>Dream and Grow Rich &#124; Inner Noodle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 13:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: O pozytywnym my?leniu i akceptacji tego, co jest.</title>
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		<dc:creator>O pozytywnym my?leniu i akceptacji tego, co jest.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 10:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] jest wa?niejsza ni? szcz??cie&#8221; przeczyta?am dzi? tutaj i&#160;co? we mnie ta my?l poruszy?a. Okaza?a si? podsumowaniem ró?nych przemy?le? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] jest wa?niejsza ni? szcz??cie&#8221; przeczyta?am dzi? tutaj i&nbsp;co? we mnie ta my?l poruszy?a. Okaza?a si? podsumowaniem ró?nych przemy?le? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Puerhan</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-3167</link>
		<dc:creator>Puerhan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:12:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Golden Rule as presented here comes from a Judaic Christian background to my understanding - and seems to imply that we should be active in *doing* to others what we would like done to ourselves.  As noted, this can easily lead to imposing our preferences on others and, if taken to the logical extreme, to evangalism / crusading / colonialism...

I have been told that there is an eastern equivalent that presents it the other way around - i.e. *Don&#039;t do* to others what you don&#039;t want others to do to you.  Quite a different perspective!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Golden Rule as presented here comes from a Judaic Christian background to my understanding &#8211; and seems to imply that we should be active in *doing* to others what we would like done to ourselves.  As noted, this can easily lead to imposing our preferences on others and, if taken to the logical extreme, to evangalism / crusading / colonialism&#8230;</p>
<p>I have been told that there is an eastern equivalent that presents it the other way around &#8211; i.e. *Don&#8217;t do* to others what you don&#8217;t want others to do to you.  Quite a different perspective!</p>
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		<title>By: Padma</title>
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		<dc:creator>Padma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 09:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are most correct...I had a spiritual experience one time and learned the truth: Everything you need to know is inside of you.</description>
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		<title>By: 150 Lists: An Introduction &#171; Benjamin Montgomery</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-2567</link>
		<dc:creator>150 Lists: An Introduction &#171; Benjamin Montgomery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 15:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Allan</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-2180</link>
		<dc:creator>Allan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 09:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Golden Rule revision here is, of course, a famous George Bernard Shaw quote.</description>
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		<title>By: How to Double Your Readers: Trust Your Material &#124; Write to Done</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-2001</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Double Your Readers: Trust Your Material &#124; Write to Done</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] for me to stand apart, I needed to find a more interesting approach; something more creative and unexpected (something that hasn&#8217;t already been written over 40,000 [...]</description>
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		<title>By: SelecciÃ³n de Noticias y Blogs [14] &#171; Raul Barral Tamayo&#8217;s Alpha Blog</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-1923</link>
		<dc:creator>SelecciÃ³n de Noticias y Blogs [14] &#171; Raul Barral Tamayo&#8217;s Alpha Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 22:18:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Tiffany Monhollon</title>
		<link>http://www.illuminatedmind.net/2008/07/14/10-ways-to-improve-your-life-youll-never-hear-about/#comment-1860</link>
		<dc:creator>Tiffany Monhollon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 13:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Point #4 is interesting. Right in line with Maslow&#039;s hierarchy of needs. 

So in light of that, it&#039;s interesting that, as you mention, that so much of personal development seems to ignore those first few steps... 

I believe attitude is a powerful thing, but it&#039;s not powerful because it changes your mind about your reality; what it does is helps you use your mind to CHANGE reality. That&#039;s true empowerment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Point #4 is interesting. Right in line with Maslow&#8217;s hierarchy of needs. </p>
<p>So in light of that, it&#8217;s interesting that, as you mention, that so much of personal development seems to ignore those first few steps&#8230; </p>
<p>I believe attitude is a powerful thing, but it&#8217;s not powerful because it changes your mind about your reality; what it does is helps you use your mind to CHANGE reality. That&#8217;s true empowerment.</p>
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